“That’s one of the things that “queer” can refer to: the open mesh of possibilities, gaps, overlaps, dissonances and resonances, lapses and excesses of meaning when the constituent elements of anyone’s gender, of anyone’s sexuality aren’t made (or can’t be made) to signify monolithically.”
― Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick, Tendencies
The way this is makes me want to remove all my skin and knit every page of every dictionary to my bones and then we can spend a lifetime learning words off each other.